Want to know a secret about relationships?

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Couples who have happy, healthy relationships know how to date each other well and do it regularly

 

Going on dates (successfully) is not just a nice-to-have but an essential ingredient in creating and maintaining connection, harmony, love and trust, and ensuring that your relationship gets the attention it deserves.

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Relationships are like a garden - they need sustenance and loving care. Without it, relationships die just a little more each day until one day, you wake up and find yourself living like flatmates at best, or experiencing the pain and suffering that comes with living with less than you fully deserve - or worse, a horrible breakup.

Going on dates is part of keeping your relationship watered, fed and alive.

 

I often find that couples don't actually know how to date, and have a lot of resistance to adding this in.

'But going on dates is boring!'

'It's too expensive'

'I'm/We're too busy'

'There's no one to look after the kids!'

'We'd have nothing to talk about'

'Whenever we get together we end up arguing'

 

Sound familiar?​

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